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Aunty Bella, I’m a 29 years outdated girl turning 30 in December and I’ve two guys which are concerned with me, who ought to I select?
Mr A is an unimaginable man, accountable, caring and loving. He is an efficient Christian too. He travels each weekend from Warri simply to see me. The one downside is that he’s quick… like actually quick. I don’t have something in opposition to quick guys however I’m ashamed to say that I’m very aware once I’m with him. The ‘trying down’ factor will get to me at occasions. I really feel like an older sibling. I additionally marvel if the explanation he’s additional wonderful is as a result of he’s making up for the peak. If he was not less than my top or extra, then he can be my dream man.
Mr B is tall, darkish and good-looking… however his character is…okay. I do know nobody is ideal and his imperfections are a bit daunting at occasions (there’s at all times pee round the bathroom seat and on the ground each time he makes use of the bathroom, he can decide stuff off the ground and eat it) however I’m not ashamed to be by his aspect after we exit. He’s accountable and know the best way to take care of me.
I do know they are saying seems to be shouldn’t matter, however I’m wondering if I’ll endlessly really feel aware of being with Mr A. My coronary heart sinks just a little anytime we get up. What if I by no means recover from this little bit of him? Mr B is a genuinely good particular person, I would be capable of change him… or not less than handle his imperfections..however he’s nowhere close to Mr A with regards to character and integrity. I really feel I’ve to decide on between this two as a result of they is at all times going to be one thing I don’t like within the subsequent particular person.
Who ought to I select, what would you advise?
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